We receive hundreds of questions every day about cats – and so many are about cat behavior problems. We have had many behavior challenges as well. As such, feel that feline behaviorists are one of the most underutilized resources for us cat people. Sadly, we know this because far too many cats are surrendered to shelters for behavior issues. Many never get out.
Because of this sad fact, and our cats’ own issues, we’ve partnered with certified cat behaviorist and trainer, Linda Hall. Better known to the world as The Cat Behaviorist, we asked her to share her insights on the 7 most common cat behavior issues our community asks about.
Below are these common questions followed by Linda’s response.
Let’s Dive In!
Why Won’t My Cat Use The Litterbox?
Medical: Get a vet check first. Cat’s instinctually do not want to eliminate in a communal space when they are sick. Also, pain from a UTI or FIC can make them avoid the box.
Litter box issues: Covered boxes or those in corners can make a cat feel trapped. High traffic areas should also be avoided. Litter should be soft to the paws, and the box should be at least 1.5 times the cat’s size. You should have one box per cat, plus one extra – and they should be kept clean. Any of those things can cause avoidance.
Fear: Is there a litter box bully in your home? Are there cats outside that are spraying your house? If a cat is fearful, they won’t get into a box. They will often go up high, in a sink, or anywhere that makes them feel more safe. Cats who don’t spray often use their urine as a scent marker, to let other cats know that this is their territory.
Anxiety: Is your cat peeing on your bed, your spot on the couch or you? Your cat is marking you as theirs. This could be due to cats outside amping up their fear of losing their resources. (YOU are an important resource.) If it’s happening primarily when you are not home, they may be mixing their scent with yours, in an attempt to comfort themselves. I see this often with cats who have separation anxiety.
Why does my cat attack me (or my other pets)?
Play: Cats don’t play for fun. They play to hunt. Some cats have a higher prey/hunting drive than others and their play can get aggressive with you or another cat. If the other cat runs, it makes them want to chase. If the other cat fights back, it may turn into an actual fight.
Fear: Most cats want to be sure other beings are safe. A new cat or human in the house could cause them to be fearful. Scared cats either choose fight or flight. Humans often label these cats as a “bully” or “victim” but they are both scared cats.
Misdirected: If a cat’s scent changes, they may not recognize their friend and behave as if you brought a stranger in, resulting in either fight or flight. I’ve also seen cats who got scared by something like a loud noise. If another cat is close by when they are startled, they may strike out of fear. The other cat may fight back, and this can turn a friend into a perceived threat.
How do I stop my cat from scratching the furniture?
Your cat doesn’t know they are ruining your couch. If it suits their purpose, it’s a scratcher. First, we need to provide appropriate scratchers. If your cat is a horizontal scratcher, get a scratcher for the floor. Vertical scratchers prefer posts. Make sure it is tall enough for them to get a full stretch and sturdy enough that it doesn’t wobble or topple over when they use it. Spray a little catnip spray on it. My cats go crazy over Kitty Crack Nip. It’s strong, long lasting and organic! After you have provided the right scratchers, we need to discourage them from scratching the other furniture. I love the vinyl sheets. They are clear and since your kitty’s paws slide right off of them, they aren’t satisfying. So, your cat chooses to go elsewhere!
Why are my cats fighting and how can I help them get along?
Your cat considers another cat to be a threat. This could be due to an issue they had, or it could be aimed at a new kitty in the home. Your cat is not a jerk. They are scared. Proper introductions are so important. Take it slow! Make sure you have enough resources. Cats don’t love sharing. Each should have separate food dishes, enough litter boxes, attention, etc.
You can help them by making their encounters positive. Favorite treats should only be dispersed when they are together. Involve them in tandem play to build a “teammate” mentality. The laser pointer is great for this but be sure to give a catch and treat at the end to avoid frustration or hurting their confidence.
How do I stop my cat from waking me up at night?
Never feed them at a time that is not appropriate! If a scratch at the door gets you to feed them, they will continue to scratch at the door. You can provide snacks for them at night by hiding treats around the house or by providing a timed feeder, treat ball or food puzzle before you go to bed. Cats will not continue to do something with no reward. If you need sleep, you can tell them “time out” and put them in another room for a few minutes. Let them out and try again. You may have one very rough night but it will pay off when you can finally sleep without your cat interrupting you!
How can I calm my anxious or stressed cat?
How is your stress? Our cats pick up on our emotions – so keeping a calm, peaceful household is incredibly important. Clutter can be scary, as a predator may lurk in that pile of clothes, etc. I play calming music like Music for Cats when I go to bed or leave the house. There are also some great calming supplements out there like Feline Essential Cat Calm. My cats get that in their evening meal every night because there are 10 of them! It’s all natural and very effective. Give them lots of attention and play time. Enrichment is so important!
Why doesn’t my cat play or seem interested in toys?
Make sure you have the right toys. Some cats have a high prey drive and need prey toys. Motion activated toys, wand toys, things that make noise and move are all great for engaging those super hunters. Other cats prefer to catch toys and bring them back. Provide small toys that can be easily carried in their mouths and toss it for them. Sometimes the problem is with the human. I’ve seen many people dangle a wand toy while watching TV. You have to engage! Make that toy act like prey. Move it slowly across the floor or whip it up so they can jump for it. Pay attention to your cat’s play style and meet that need! With the right toy and the right interaction, all cats will play!
Do you have more questions for Linda? Or maybe a different behavior issue with your cat? Visit The Cat Behaviorist for more help – and find the solutions you need to live in peace and harmony again!
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